For the Wild Ones - Outdoor Boudoir!

For the Wild Ones - Outdoor Boudoir Shoots

Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to see yourself through an artist’s eyes? To embrace and love your body exactly how it is?  And to fall in love with what you see.  It would feel like Freedom.  Liberation. It would feel like coming home to yourself, finally.  Maybe for the first time in your life.  Society says we’re not beautiful unless we fit a specific mold.  That we’re not worthy anymore once we start getting wrinkles and gray hair.  We wear those conditions like armor. Do you long to drop your shield to the world and walk naked into nature, in every sense of the word?  If your heart is saying yes, then an outdoor boudoir photoshoot is the answer to your longing!     

Imagine yourself...

Dancing in a golden field with silk as light as air as the sunlight spills over your beaming face. Or walking through a quiet forest, feeling the peace of being at home in your body, reconnecting with nature.  A sense of tranquility and self love like you’ve never felt before washing over you like the sweetness of spring. You let go of years and years of self doubt and criticism in a matter of moments, and you feel like a goddess.  Imagine being reminded of that feeling of self love every single day when you look at the beautiful work of art of YOU on your wall that we created together.  Imagine being able to go back to that very moment years later and feel the same peace and comfort you felt that day, shedding your layers in nature. Photographs have the power of doing that, transporting you to a reverie of a different time.  Reminding you of what’s important in life.

Consider this shoot for your future self on that day that you forget your worth and grace.  And you will, because we all do from time to time.

Don't wait until you "lose that last XX pounds" or "find someone to give the photos to".  NOW is the best time.  You already know this.  All we have is now, we have no idea what the future brings, or when our time is up.  We sit idly by and say, "one day I'll learn to love myself" until the weeks, months and years pass by and we've missed out on so much because we were so concerned with how we look in that swimsuit to go to the beach or pool party.  Imagine how freeing it would be to be able to let go of those negative views about yourself, even if just for a day.  If there are areas of your body that you're not ready to be in love with, that's totally ok.  I can help minimize focus on these areas with posing, lighting and wardrobe.

THIS IS YOUR LIFE.  RIGHT NOW, THIS VERY SECOND.  Don't waste it on self hate.  So many times I've heard clients say, "oh I wish I would have done a boudoir session years ago, I was too self conscious.  This really could have helped me."

"But I don't have anyone to give the photos to..."

The most transformative boudoir sessions I've done have been the ones where my client does the shoot for themselves.  You don't need a significant other to do a boudoir photoshoot.  If you do happen to have a significant other, it's just a bonus that they get to enjoy the photos with you!  This experience is all about you and your relationship to yourself.

YOU are important.  YOU are beautiful. YOU are worthy.

YOU. ARE. READY.

Where will your journey happen?

Your shoot is only limited by our imaginations.  What place in nature resonates most with your heart?  Where do you come alive? I would love to explore some ideas with you!  Virginia is home to the lovely Blue Ridge Mountains and countless winding rivers, waterfalls, and epic viewpoints on the tops of mountains.   The options are literally endless!  If you have no idea where you would like for your outdoor boudoir photoshoot to happen, I'll help you out.  I have a ton of great locations to choose from.  We'll work together to find the perfect fit you you.  

The WORLD is your oyster!

These shoots aren’t limited to the great outdoors of Virginia.  If you envision being engulfed in a sea of green moss that covers every inch of the Earth surrounding you, let’s go to the Pacific Northwest!  If big open skies with rolling sand dunes is more your speed, let’s head to the sand dunes out west! Your shoot is only limited by our imaginations.  We can go anywhere in the world.  The following photos were taken in Florida, Kauai, Italy & Bali.  

Where will your rewilding take you?  Let’s chat and come up with something unforgettable!

What to Wear for your Rewilding Session

This is entirely up to you.  The last thing I want to do is to fit you in a box that goes against who you are.  If what I say here doesn’t resonate with you, then carve your own path and let’s create your shoot together.  What would your ideal outdoor boudoir shoot look like?  Do you envision yourself prancing barefoot through the forest in a white lace gown and a flower crown?  Or elegantly draped across a log with a blood red dress swirling around your feet? Check out my Pinterest board to see what calls to you, or better yet, make your own and send me the link!

When choosing your outfit, think about the fabric and how it will move.  If it’s too stiff it won’t move with your movements and body. Flowy fabric that hangs nicely photographs well.  Chiffon and silk are ideal. The weight of jersey fabric can work well too, depending on the garment. If you’re not sure how something will look, please don’t hesitate to message me!

Check out this Pinterest board for inspiration.

Light, Natural Colors

I love the way white, ivory, and natural colors look in nature for a softer, sweeter look.  Loose, flowy dresses with lots of fabric would be ideal for this look. Other options would be sheer lace robes, crochet cover-ups, and fabric.  Flower crowns go well with this look as well!

Bold & Dramatic

Bold colors that pop against the natural setting can give your photos a dramatic look.  Stick to colors that are commonly found in nature such as black & deep red. Brighter colors, such as bright pink, bright blue or neon green can look out of place in nature. Bold patterns can as well.  But hey, if you’re looking for something that has that kind of look then go for it! This is YOUR shoot and it should be truly, authentically you.

Nude

You can’t go wrong with fine art nudes in nature.  You won’t regret the freeing feeling the experience of being in the wild outdoors with nothing between you and nature.  I will never pressure you into taking more off than you’re ready for.  If you decide to do nude photos before you shoot, then change your mind in the moment that’s 100% okay.  Listen to your heart and honor what you’re feeling.

Clothed or bare, come with your heart naked.  

Are you ready for an experience that will change your perspective of yourself for the better?  Book your session now and let’s start planning!  There’s only a limited number of these shoots so they’ll go fast.  Once your date is booked we’ll start planning your outdoor boudoir adventure together with a consultation with me personally (via coffee date, phone call or Skype).  We’ll make an inspiration board on Pinterest that matches your personality and what you want out of your experience.

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Boudoir & Erotic photography in New Orleans

Rendezvous in the city of Sin - Meet me in New Orleans

Do you ever

long to leave everything behind? To get away from the drudgery of work and errands and responsibilities in order to indulge in desires you hardly ever dare whisper aloud?

The Crescent City’s wanton soul is electric.

You cannot walk its streets without feeling the titillating touch of its warm air and savory smells. Its heady jazz is intoxicating, and I dare you to walk the city without hiking your dress a little higher, swaying and sweating to a late night beat that seems to emanate from within the cobblestones themselves.

There is magic here.

A current that pulses with a fierce sensuality that cannot be contained within its glorious architecture. In this place of change and rebirth, there is nothing the city does not see or accept. Here, you are whiskey. You are absinthe. You are both fire and smoke, and no amount of clothes will be able to mask your scorching skin.

And why try to hide at all?

Let it go. Expose yourself. Offer New Orleans what you are scarcely ever able to offer the outside world - your truth laid bare. Let the camera tell your story as you unlock the shackles of your inhibition. This is not a place for secrets, but of revelation. You are a goddess, and every piece of art in the city worships you.

Have a lover you want to share your fantasies with? Bring him. Bring her. Explore the light and shadows your bodies can create together. This is your moment, and you alone decide who gets to witness it.

Will you do it?

Will you step away from everything comfortable in order to dare to be who you want to be? In order to let yourself feel as beautiful as this indomitable city ravished by floods? The answer lies within you already. Let the music of the streets fuel you. This is New Orleans. And you are oh so gloriously you.

DATES: March 19 & 20, 2018 CLICK HERE to message me and reserve your spot. 

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Fear is something I try to acknowledge and allow myself to feel

That's what she said...

What was your biggest fear prior to your session?

Fear is something I try to acknowledge and allow myself to feel. My fears prior to this photo shoot consisted of not being able to let go and be sexy on camera. I've only had one photography look my whole life-look straight at the camera and smile! I also feared that the photos would not be perfection. I'm a life long perfectionist and want everything I do to be just that way. Once the clothes came off and the photo shoot started, my fear of not feeling sexy vanished and I focused completely on Jen's directions. I had to release the perfectionism and embrace the real me in that moment. Was I perfect? No but I was still stunning.

What was your favorite part?

It is cliche to say but it is empowering. To know that I am capable of oozing sexuality and showcasing excellent physical condition at my age is uplifting and motivating-hopefully not just to me, but to others as well. I also loved the creative aspect of the photo shoot and experimenting with the human form.

How would you describe your experience to your best friend?

I would say you just have to do this for yourself. Every woman and man should...the experience can not really be described. I would say though that the resulting photographs tell a story and the process allows you to love and accept your body and spirit completely.

Would you do it again?

In a heartbeat. I want to explore outdoor scenic boudoir photography!

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That's what she said.... | Charlottesville Boudoir Photography

*Charlottesville Boudoir Photography*

That's what she said...

My favorite part of the session was...

"How comfortable Jen made me feel from the first email exchange we had. She was genuinely excited to work with me and I felt like she quickly understood what I wanted from the photo shoot. Jen is so good at directing, which is key to getting a good photo. She told me exactly what to do and how to pose and I didn't have to think about it or feel awkward. I felt really good and I had fun while she photographed me. And I don't like to be photographed normally!"

Her biggest fear...

"That I would feel completely nervous and self-conscious and look really stiff and not sexy in the photos."

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Hair and makeup by Destiny Noir

Charlottesville | Couple's Boudoir Photography

I looooove couple's boudoir photography! It's a totally different ball game than a solo boudoir session. The focus is turned on to your lover instead of the camera or yourself.  There's no need for acting to create passion, it's already there.  And it's real.  And you just can't beat that.  It allows you to be seductive and playful with your partner in new ways, ways that you may have never experienced together.  It's a good reminder of the connection between the two of you.

You can see more couple's boudoir photos in the gallery HERE.

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Hair and makeup by Destiny: @whatsyourdestiny

Charlottesville Boudoir Photo Shoot

With each and every Charlottesville boudoir photo shoot I do, my heart grows a little bigger.  I can't get over how everything has been working out with our new move!  I've only been here for three months now and it already feels more like home than I've ever felt.  The mountains nearby, the amazing people, the shoots.  MY SANCTUARY of a house!  Seriously, you guys, I live in total bliss!  I see deer almost every day in my yard!  You guys have no idea how happy that makes me.  I'm a bit of a nature nut, in case you can't tell.  ;)

Meet Kathi - 

This shoot in particular pulled at my heart strings.  I felt a pretty instant connection with Kathi.  She walked in with short, spunky hair with purple bangs... I knew we were going to have a great time!  She's inspirational to me because she's a 45 year old mother of three, and she's still doing her own thing and being true to herself.  This includes doing really awesome things like taking pole dance classes and doing boudoir photo shoots!

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Your Biggest Fear... 

I asked Kathi what her biggest fear was before the session, this is what she shared with me:

"I thought I would be nervous when it came time to take the pictures. I was extremely comfortable upon meeting Jen and did not experience any nerves. I felt very at ease from the moment we met. I like to talk and enjoyed chatting as my hair and make up were being done also. I had worried that the make up would be too much, but it looked very natural and is perfect in the pictures.

It's interesting, I had breast tumors removed from both of my breasts when I was a young teenager. Back in those days, the doctors didn't really care about the scars that were left behind. I used to be incredibly self conscious about my breasts and didn't like for anyone to see them. I was especially conscious of the scars when a man would see them for the first time. The scars have lessened with time, but they are still there. Before going for my session, I had worried that they would show up in the pictures and had thought I would mention them. After I left and was driving home, I realized that I had not thought about them once while Jen was taking my pictures! Thirty years of embarrassment melted away in one day.

©2015 Jen Trombly - Breathless Boudoir

 

©2015 Jen Trombly - Breathless Boudoir

"I have recommended Breathless Boudoir to friends! I think it is an amazing and empowering experience. Jen tells you exactly what to do - how to hold your hands, what to do with your feet, which direction to turn your head, etc. All you have to do is relax and follow directions and you end up with amazing, sexy photographs!"

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Show her love!

Kathi said, "I am a 45 year old mother of three children. My body has been better, but I work out regularly and I'm proud to look like this at my age. My Breathless Boudoir experience reaffirmed that and made me feel even sexier. I like looking at the pictures and showing them to close friends." Leave a comment below to help reaffirm that she should be proud as hell of where she's at!  AND for having the courage to do a boudoir session!Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 4 Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 6 Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 7 Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 8 Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 9 Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 8Charlottesville Boudoir Photography 10

Now it's your turn!

Ready to bite the bullet and book your own boudoir session?  If you're on this page, that means you're at least curious.  So give me a call!  Even if it is just to say how nervous you are and you don't think you'd would ever be able to do a boudoir session.  No pressure, we'll just chat about it.  Recently, after a client admitted to almost hanging up on me when I first answered the phone because she was so nervous, I realized there are A LOT of you out there who lurk on my blog and website and pretend one magical day you'll have the guts to call me.  You know, after you lose that extra 5 pounds, or whatever excuse you're giving yourself to procrastinate because you're so nervous.  Well, make today that magical day you take the first step to your life changing boudoir experience!  Seriously!  My name is Jen, and my number is 225-571-3668.

Don't quite have the courage to call?  Feel braver through email? Fill out this form and send me a message!  If you're nervous, let me know.  Just sometimes saying I'm nervous makes me feel a little less nervous.  You'll get tons of guidance from the time you book your session to the very end.  I can even hold your hand the whole way (except, you know, when I'm photographing you ;).

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Boudoir for the Mature Woman

Many people believe they're "too old" for boudoir photography if they're over 30.  To that, I say bullshit!!!  Sensuality has no age limit, neither does boudoir photography.  As women, we grow into our sensuality as we age.  Like a fine wine, we get better the older we get.  We learn our bodies and what makes us feel good, we connect with ourselves in ways that we could only dream of in our 20's.  It's such an honor when Max and I are given the opportunity to capture that sensuality in a boudoir session for a finely aged client. Meet Karen.  She's 53 and a mother of two.  She did this session for herself first and foremost, having gorgeous photos to gift to her husband was just a bonus.  Do you think her photos are beautiful?  Tell her in the comments!  It feels good to get encouragement when we do something that makes us nervous!  It takes a lot of courage for our clients to share their photos with the world, make it worth it for her!

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"My biggest fear was that my photos would look horrible. I actually started to feel queasy on the way to the shoot! I thought I would not like any of them. I thought that every extra pound or dimple would show and I would be disappointed. It was just the opposite! I teared up during the viewing. They worked their magic and I had a hard time wittling my list down. And I hate to take photos! Crazy huh?!"mature boudoir photography mature boudoir

"Taking the photos themselves was amazing. Jen & Max get so excited and enjoy what they do so much you can't help but feel comfortable and relaxed. Even so, I did state towards the end that I still couldn't believe I was doing this. I never feel special, just average. Well today I felt incredibly special. They hid my flaws and the results are unbelievable. At my age, they made me feel fabulous and desirable. I had a great time and they did too so it was a fun day!"

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"I would say You Have To Do It!!! I totally agree that every woman should do this once in their lifetime for themselves. If their significant other benefits from the results, well that's a bonus. I can't wait to receive my photos. My husband is in for a Big Surprise!!"mature boudoir session mature boudoir session

"It's scary and fun and liberating all at the same time. I have wanted to do this forever but never felt it was the right time or that I looked good enough. I finally decided that I am me and this is how I look, so it's now or never. You need to check this out and see how amazing it makes you feel. I promise you wil not regret it. I know I never will! Make your appointment today. What are you waiting for?!"mature sexuality mature sensuality mature boudoir black and white mature fine art nude Mature boudoir photo

Did this post give you the courage to book your own session?  Click the box below to get in touch and make it happen!  Make sure to leave a comment letting Karen know how amazing she looks!

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