This woman is an incredible inspiration for SO many reasons I can't even name.
It was a chilly December night and I stepped into Mono Loco, a popular music venue in Charlottesville, for Adar's show. I hadn't seen her before, so I didn't know what I was in for. I was practicing doing things in public on my own to overcome my social anxiety, so I was nervous. Then this tiny, gorgeous creature walked onto the set and picks up the microphone. Her stage presence was so real, so honest and raw. As soon as she opened her mouth to sing nothing but a deep velvety smoke poured out and caressed my eardrums. I forgot I was nervous. Standing in the front of the crowd, I started to sway my hips to the beats. Gently at first, then as the rhythms grow so did the motions of my hips. I didn't care if anyone else was dancing, I couldn't help but dance to every single song they played. I was mesmerized and vowed at that moment to go to every possible Adar show that I could. Fast forward a couple months later. I posted a model call blog post asking for a guinea pig to come try out this AMAZING hotel room in Richmond, Virginia with a to-die-for-tub surrounded by windows. Who responded? None other than Adar herself! To say the shoot was an inspiration would be an understatement. Being able to share my talent with a woman who has an incredible amount of talent herself was just awe-inspiring! We had a blast for her shoot!
I love this woman for being so unapologetically her.
Hello my lovelies! I just wanted to post this quick travel notice to let you all know where I'll be for upcoming shoots. If you're looking for an adventurous shoot, pick the Destin or Bali location and let's plan some magic! July 5-8 - Destin Florida, Beach Boudoir
July 22-24 - Baton Rouge, Louisiana
August 29-31 - Baton Rouge, Louisiana
November 6-18 - Bali, Indonesia
In between these dates I'll be doing shoots in Washington DC, Charlottesville & Richmond, Virginia. (and wherever else the wind takes me).
Boudoir Photography and Yoga Retreat:
KAUAI, HAWAII - JUNE 4-8, 2017
Women's Empowerment Retreat through boudoir photography, yoga and meditation
Breathe in. Breathe out. Leave breathless.
This will be the experience where you find parts of your soul that you never knew existed, or have forgotten were there. For 5 days, we'll live fiercely and adventurously. Your retreat will center around boudoir photography, yoga & meditation. We will take you on a journey of self inquiry and self discovery. You'll feel a sense of empowerment to the degree that is only attainable by communing with a group of like-minded feminine souls in daring situations. We'll go hiking, kayaking, and zip lining together. We'll push our comfort zones. We'll support each other with love free from judgement as each bares it all for a boudoir session on the beach surrounded by rocks created from the heat of the center of the earth. We'll make lifelong friends out of strangers. This will be a bucket list trip you'll never...ever...forget.
Kauai seemed to be the perfect setting, and when we arrived there for the scouting trip we realized we couldn't be more right. There is something so very raw about Kauai's landscape. The mountains rip up out of the earth and form jagged, yet luscious, fingers-like ridges that slope down and disappear into the sea. The daily rains make the flowering trees come to life like nowhere I've ever seen before. There is no way to come to this island and not feel changed by it.
CLICK HERE to check out more boudoir/fine art nude photos from our scouting trip.
Your photographer, Jen Trombly - An avid adventurer and compassionate friend, I strive to create a life around empowering women through body acceptance. I draw inspiration from dancing barefoot around a fire and all things nature. From behind my lens, I encourage you to discover a positive relationship with yourself while exploring your sensuality in a safe & liberating space.
With seven years of professional fine art boudoir photography experience, my skills truly lie in making my clients feel relaxed, unique, and empowered in sensuality. Everyone deserves to feel comfortable in her own skin at any stage of life and through my gentle, customized approach, you will be guided throughout your session into beautiful poses that match your personality and make you feel relaxed, confident, and safe. Wherever your comfort zone lies - dressed or undressed - we will capture unforgettable portraits encapsulating your sensual side.
I earned my Bachelor of Fine Arts degree in 2011 from Louisiana State University. I received my Degree of Bad-Assery from the Universe in 1984. ;)
Your yoga & meditation instructor, Alicia Willemet - Alicia Willemet is a certified Shambhava Hatha & Swan River Yoga teacher and the Director of Louisiana Yoga School. Since her first teacher training in 2009 at Shambhava Ashram, she has pursued teaching yoga and meditation full-time. Alicia has dedicated herself to sharing the practice and continuing her education with inspiring teachers such as Michele Baker, Kelly Haas and most recently Sanskrit scholar Christopher Wallis. After mentoring Michele Baker’s teacher trainings in 2011 and 2012, she created her own curriculum and has been offering 200-hour trainings in Baton Rouge since 2013. Seeing the need for a more cohesive yoga community and a way to support local teachers and studios, Alicia created Louisiana Yoga School as a way to support local teachers and studios. Her ultimate goal is for all students and teachers to feel empowered on the mat and to integrate their practice and the wisdom of yoga philosophy into their daily lives.
**Alicia was also my very first yoga instructor! I fell head over heels in love with her style and have been hooked ever since.
- 5 days/4 nights in Kauai, Hawaii
- All sleeping accommodations during the retreat
- Full day excursion hiking, kayaking, zip lining
- Uplifting, gentle daily yoga with Alicia Willemet
- Empowering meditation every day
- Boudoir session on the beach
- 15 8x12 prints (with the accompanying digital files)
- Meals at the hale (Hawaiian for "house") - there will be options for shopping and dining out as well. (Some dietary restrictions can be accommodated)
- Transportation to/from all group activities
- Yoga mat for the week
- **not included: airfare (start saving your points!), meals when we’re out and about, travel insurance, tips for excursion guides, alcohol, etc..**
All you have to do is get to Kauai: Breathe in. Breathe out. Leave breathless.
The Breathless Retreat investment is $3,900 and must be paid in full by May 1. A $500 non-refundable retainer fee will be due upon acceptance of your application. This goes towards the total cost of your retreat and is not transferable.
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How to apply:
Though we wish we could have all the women in the world join us on this retreat, there's only so much sunlight in a day... and we need sunlight for photography. That being said, the space will be limited to only 6 (SIX!) lucky ladies. We will be accepting applications starting TODAY! Anyone who identifies as a women is welcome to apply. Once accepted, be prepared to submit your $500 retainer fee within 5 days, or your spot may go to the next woman in line on the waiting list. Fill out the form below to apply for our transformational retreat.
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Check out this ridiculous video of us zip lining! We were hysterical!
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Click here to see more boudoir/fine art nude photos from our scouting trip in Kauai, Hawaii.
Check out the yoga & meditation blog here.
I've always been curious about what happens when the excitement from the boudoir photography experience fades. Do people still look at their photos? Are they still excited? Is there a lasting effect form the photo shoot? I got to have these questions answered recently by Maren. Her session was almost a year ago.
Do you still look at your photos?
All the time!
Did your session change anything about the way you see yourself? Was that a lasting effect?
Yes, it made me more comfortable with my body as a whole, because I now have photos of a side of me that typically won't get photographed!
Did you noticed any changes between the two of you after your session?
Boudoir sessions will be available in New Orleans February 5-10. Call now to book your date, or fill out the form below. MAKE SURE you enter your email address correctly so I can get back to you! Sessions are limited to what you see above, I'll try to keep this up to date as much as possible but I'll be traveling for the next month. Helloooo SUNSHINE!
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"For the most part I am fearless in all situations, however, this one struck fear in me as the former fat girl and the not your standard body type girl. Even with that, in the past years and with 100+ pound weight loss, I have learned to embrace my body's unique attributes."
"I wanted to do this initially for my fiancé, because he loves my body, but the more I thought about it, I wanted to do it for myself too. And in the end I am so glad that I did. The experience itself, was comfortable from beginning to end and the process was very easy. The results were amazing, and honestly made me feel like I was 25 again. Actually better than 25, because I'm much more secure in who I am now at 41."
Guest post: Emily joined Kerri and I on our Breathless Kauai Retreat scouting trip. The following is her experience.
Why has that always been an unattainable adjective for me? Beautiful is a descriptor that has always been reserved for a different type woman. A woman who’s put together. Who is seen and not heard- not because she lives up to that old southern mantra, but because she has the type of beauty that will silence a room. She’s the embodiment of grace and elegance that is perfectly balanced with strength and confidence. She’s the type of woman I have always been told I should be and the kind of woman I could be, if I really tried. As a result, most of my life has been spent stuck in a vicious cycle of dieting and disappointment. I’ve been drowning in an endless supply of the latest and greatest beauty products, only coming up for air when someone would acknowledge my efforts. My quest has kept me constantly searching for approval from colleagues, friends, family members, and partners- eagerly waiting for someone to tell me that I’m beautiful, starving to hear someone use that adjective to describe me. Yet, those words never seem to come. I’m still nothing like the image of that beautiful woman I’ve always aspired to be. Instead I’ve had to settle with adjectives like “cute”, “pretty”, “hot”, “sexy”,“fuckable”…but never beautiful…. because it’s impossible for me to be beautiful.I’m just not that kind of woman. I’m more of a mess, with wild hair and coffee stains on my wrinkled shirt. I can silence a room, not with my looks, but because I usually enter a room like a hurricane, tripping over myself every step of the way. I’m the opposite of “put-together”. I’m all over the place. Some days I’m confident, but mostly I’m waiting for the next words of affirmation from someone else to reinforce my fake confidence. That’s not the description of a beautiful woman. Not even close. It is, however, the description of a woman who has mana. Mana that is visible in my photos. That’s why I immediately broke down into tears when I saw Jen’s photos of me- I could see it. I could remember it. I could feel it again. I could believe that it was there and it all finally made sense-I immediately knew why beautiful wasn’t my adjective, why it never will be. It can’t be.
Kauai is a special place. You can feel it as soon as you step off the plane. As a dear friend explained it - the island has a unique energy. Volcanic energy. It has its own power. That’s what mana is- a spiritual force and energy. I even wrote in my journal “the mana on this island is palatable” after he described it. Farther down the same page I also wrote:
"Each time I hear a rooster crow on this island it’s a reminder that I need…that this trip is a transition. I’m calling light into all of the places of darkness I’ve been holding onto. All of the hurt and the pain that’s been inflicted by me (i.e. to myself). All of the self- criticism. All of the things I’ve done…or not done. Said….or not said."
So, what did Kauai do for me? It closed some chapters in my story and opened some new ones. I accepted that I will never be that beautiful woman I imagined while I was there. I stopped berating myself for not becoming her. I accepted that I am a mess and always will be, because I’m not beautiful and I don’t want to be anymore.All it took was a wild island and a talented photographer to immortalize it in a way I that I could finally see it for myself…see that I’m a wild woman who is “the power of the elemental forces of nature embodied in an object or person”.
I’m not a beautiful woman, I’m a woman with mana.
To read more about our Kauai Adventure or to join us on our boudoir | yoga | meditation | adventure retreat in June 2017, CLICK HERE! There's still room!
Only available in Virginia for a limited time!
White sheet sessions are a timeless classic. No lingerie necessary! These limited sessions come with a beautiful, hand bound 8x8 photo book including 10 photos with your choice of cloth cover. Click here to choose your date and book your white sheet session online.
**If you book before Dec. 20 you'll still be able to get prints in time for Christmas!**